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  People get aged not because of their age, but because they are carry so much on their shoulders?  People get stressed not because….they have problems but because they carry them forever.  People remain unhappy throughout their life, not because they haven't got any moment of happiness, but because they carry sadness on their shoulders.  People fail in their life not because they are not capable enough, but because they carry ' opinions of others on their shoulders about themselves.  There is so much to interpret the burden we carry on our shoulders that…. is not really worthy to be placed on our shoulders.  But still we carry because sometimes we feel that carrying them will prevent us from falling into the same pit again. Sometimes we carry to show ourselves or to give a face to our struggles.  But we couldn't get the lessons from our struggles or hardships we got in our lives, and we continue to carry the burden.   Remember… why you are h...

  Life is not smooth like butter, it is rather hard like a rock. Life is not like a cool shadow of a tree, it is rather hot like the sun. Life is not accessible like plains, it rather seems to be inaccessible like mountains.  But, so what?  Are you going to complain all your life…that life is unfair, life is hard… . Indeed it is?  But, you are not supposed to sit on it and cry like a baby, who looks up to others to make him happy.  You have to accept this unfairness and you have to do what you have to?  Because life still has a meaning, it still can be beautiful, without being fair. That is the beauty of life.  Rather than complaining about it, you have to accept its imperfection. You have to do your job, you have to accept this and move forward. Nothing is perfect in this world, then how can life be?  Life is unfair….but it's okay… .  You do a lot… but receive nothing This happens with all of us. You do a lot for people, you do a lot for fam...

  “Dont let negative and toxic people rent space in your head, Raise the rent and kick them out.”                                                Robert Tew We all have some people around us, who drain us more than a trademill, who criticize us more than an opposition, who eat our peace and energy more than food and who kick away our happiness like a football.  And we just keep tolerating them and their nonsense.  But, do you ever realize what happens when you cut off these kinds of people from your life?  Do you ever think that these people are only making things difficult for you rather than supporting you in your struggle or in your life?  Sometimes in life we have to be bold enough to cut off these people from our lives to grow and to experience the best in our lives.  Let's see what happens when you cut off negative and toxic people…...

Dear Meghna,  Enough is enough. How long will it take you to come out from your past? How much pain will you cause to yourself? How long are you going to sit on your failures? How long are you going to ignore yourself? How long are you going to attach your worth with your success?  Can't you mourn enough, can't you suffer enough, can't you ignore yourself enough,can't you remain unhappy enough…  Tell me how long you are going to take to. ... understand life? When are you going to start living your life? When are you going to heal yourself? When are you going to understand the concept of growth in your life? When you are going to be happy by yourself? And when you are going to take care of things you have?  Life is not fair, life is hard… but it has nothing to do with life. But, it has everything to do with your life.  Remember hard lessons are learned by doing hard things.  Come out from your self made world… you need to learn this..  1.You can't con...

  When your dreams are crushed. When you have nothing to do. When you have no one to hang out with. When you have no one to share your grief.When you are broken completely. When everyone leaves you behind. When you lost everything. When you are lonely.  When are all by yourself… . . . Magic happens.  Don't get it?  Let me tell you when you have no one or when you have nothing then you have…..”you”. This is what “The art of being alone” , a book by Renuka Gavrani taught me.  Though I am not a vivid reader or nor have anyone in my circle who likes to be surrounded by books.  But yet here I am. I think life has something different to offer me regardless of my plans.  In the worst or I must say in the darkest times I became a good reader. Or I must say the circumstances in my life forced me to find “peace” in books.  Then I came across this wonderful masterpiece “ The art of being alone” by Renuka Gavrani.  And I must say one should go through t...

  Every year the rainy season comes and goes. Each year it transforms the dry grasslands into lush green, endless beautiful grasslands. Rain also transforms the dry deciduous forest into lush green forest. Rain makes the rivers clean, as it clears the stagnant waters in the river course. Rain recharges the ground water that is exhausted. It rejuvenates the seeds that are lying on the earth surface making them grow into big beautiful trees.  Overall rain provides the opportunity for new beginnings. It does the groundwork to make the world a beautiful place to live.  But...  How many of you observe the detailing of rain? despite being too busy in making careers. How many of you learn the lessons that nature is trying to teach us?  I am pretty sure the generation before us was and is. ..pretty good with nature. There were no digital distractions, there was not that much pressure to build careers and to make money. Because they live simple lives with limited needs....

  “ Let come what comes, let go what goes. See what remains.”                                             Ramana Maharshi      “Let go in life” seems to be a simple phrase, but it has the ability to change the course of your whole life.  Holding things in life restricts us from exploring different opportunities. It keeps us in a narrow minded world, where we have a short and bounded vision about life. It not only restricts our growth but also acts as a roadblock to our happier world.  Because we believe more in controlling everything, losing grip on life means losing ourselves.  While in reality “letting go in life” opens new gates for you, it brings peace in your life, it encounters you to countless opportunities to grow and a more happier and satisfactory life.   Letting go shift your life course from hardship to healing, ...

   We all since our childhood heard this timeless advice from our elders that " Time is precious and use it judiciously, as it is not going to come back once passed.” But how many of you actually pay heed to these golden words? I think most of us remain oblivious to this, despite knowing the consequences of it.  Because we are too busy to pay attention to the uses of our time.  And with technological advancement or rather I would say the “ Onset of digital media platforms” It is becoming further challenging to keep a check on our time.  On these platforms we don't know when or how our hours passed in minutes and our minutes passed in seconds. Until we realize, we already created a disaster and left only with guilt. Guilt of wasting time, doing nothing.  This is the story of every other individual in the digital era.  Everyone wants to come out of this loop, only few can make it. Because they consciously tried to come out by analyzing their time uses....