Healing: A Journey From Broken to becoming

Sometimes life becomes hell not because we are working hard, but because we are getting nothing from our hardwork. We are getting nothing from our sacrifices. We often ignore the uncertainty of life, and think “if we work hard, we will achieve everything what we desire”.

I also used to think this way and worked tirelessly for years. I want to achieve my dreams at any cost. I hold things tightly. 

But, in the end I couldn't make it. 

I am sure that many of you also went through the same pain. In those times we couldn't understand the importance of transition from broken to becoming through healing. 

 I am writing this blog to provide insights from my own journey of transition. So it can help others in their difficult times and they could find their transition worthy than mere a process. 

                 After healing, One thing I clearly understand is that .... now I no longer want to hold things tightly because I found that life is not always about holding things tightly, sometimes we have to treat.. life like a river, which will make its own course. 

I can't tell you how better I feel after this transition from broken to becoming in my own life. Now if I have to start again, it is still worth it. 

Transition that I experienced in my own journey… 

1. COMPLICATIONS TO CLARITY

We often complicate our lives, as we believe more in technicalities of life than simplicity and clarity of life. We ignore the importance of clarity. We consider clarity is something that is easy and not going to help us to achieve big things in life. This is how we complicate our lives. 

We completely ignore the clarity that pave the way for healing, and we ourselves become “mountains” in our journey of our clarity and healing. 

Just soften the grip and see the magic.. 

Let me tell you about my own journey since the moment I started my healing journey, I slowly developed a feeling of clarity in my own life. I was finally able to release the pressure that built up in the last couple of years. I made simplicity and clarity is the first priority in my life. Which not only heals me but also simplify my life to a great extent. 

 Now I can tell you that… you just need to take first a step to come out from self made zone of complications to clarity. 

           So please guys just have faith and take the step to make your life more easier and adventurous. You are here to live not to complicate your life. 

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2. Suffering to Self discovery

             “ The greatest adventure is not exploring the world, but exploring the depth of one's soul”.

 We often take a tough path in our lives to show people that we are “something”.  We are special. This is one of the main causes of our suffering. 

Though we have abilities and capabilities to achieve anything in life, we often forget that we are exclusive for ourselves. 

  We are not here to become “others”. So, we often keep ourselves wounded for our whole life without even realizing. 

Self discovery is completely absent from our lives. We just focus on the external reality and neglect the inner realities.

Here, comes the role of healing.which put our gears on the path of self discovery by inner engineering. And forced us to look inward. 

Because, healing transforms suffering into self discovery by enhancing our emotional intelligence. 

Suffering to self discovery

3. FORBIDDEN TO FORGIVENESS

Here, I will tell you my own transitional story. I always believed that hard work pave the way for success. 

             When I could not achieve my dream. I forbade myself from accepting this fact and I became tough and rude to myself and to loved ones. Forgiveness was not in my dictionary.

 But, since I embraced the healing , I chose the freedom that helped me to easily let go of my unachieved dream. And I realized that becoming tough with yourself is nothing but a “self sabotage” which was explained by Brianna Wiest in her book “THE MOUNTAIN IS YOU”.   

     Once you realize this, your life will be completely different… There is always a way out if you forgive yourself and people around you.

Trust me you will become the best version of yourself. 

A letter to myself about life, healing and growth

4.COMPROMISE TO CONTENTMENT

             “The path from compromise to contentment is paved with acceptance, gratitude and growth”.

In life we often compromise on many things to live an ideal life. But, we often forget that we are not here to live for hundreds and thousands of years. 

We find it difficult to accept hardships in life, we forget about gratitude and complain about growth. Then, how can we heal? 

 However, we frequently heard the stories of successful people who are leaving everything behind and leading a simple life in remote places. Because, they want contentment in their lives. 

These are the healed personalities, who practice gratitude and see growth in their mental wellbeing. 

Thus, stop compromises in life and start finding contentment. 

This will drive you towards a more adventurous and lively life. 

So my request to all of you is that “please live” You got only one life. Follow your passion. 

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5. Absence to Abundance

      “ Abundance begins the moment you stop focusing on scarcity and start recognizing possibilities.”

In life when we see things from the perspective of absence. We find nothing meaningful in our lives. 

This put us in the complaining mode. We only see the results, not the efforts and learning we are getting from the actions. 

Whether it could be in career, relationship and wealth. But, once we shift our gears towards abundance… we will find that everything is working in our favour. 

This will happen when we start healing by letting go of our failures and setbacks. This is what a “ Positive Mindset” defines. 

Healing provides a BIG PICTURE of life. It shifts our focus on the things that we have and the learning we get.

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6. Dreams to Drives

    “Dreams inspire the heart, but drives move the feet.”

Let me first differentiate between dreams and drives. Dreams could be ours and may be influenced by our near and dear ones or by our ideals. But our drives truly comes from our inner self. 

Our dreams are more like a duty to us, while drive is the passion to us. 

We often confuse ourselves by assuming dreams and drive are the same. But, once we start reflecting on life then only we can understand the difference. 

Here, the journey of healing helps us to identify our passion. Because when we heal we not only reflect on life but also get the courage to pursue our passion.

Our transition sometimes gives us mindful life lessons and strengthens our drives.

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7. Nature to Nurture

Transition from nature to nurture is nothing but understanding the difference between our limitations and imagination in terms of life. 

Limitations means something that is fixed, which is nature. Meaning our thinking abilities… to what extent we go in our lives is limited. 

While imagination is nurturing. Because it blurred the mental boundaries and made us limitless. 

This transition also owes to the healing, which broadens our horizons about life. And truly makes us have a nurtured personality. 

These are the 7 transitions that I experienced through my Own journey of healing. 

Healing is not a one time process rather it is a continuous journey, which is further nurtured by learning and awareness. 

In the end I just want to tell you that “if one door is closed that doesn't mean the end of life”. That is what I have realized. For me it was satisfying to give up on my dream, because I considered these years as learning not as a failure… . This is what THE ART OF LETTING GO TAUGHT me. 

Also keep in mind that “sometimes things happen not to break us but to make you.”

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