Beware What You Carry on Your Shoulders

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  People get aged not because of their age, but because they are carry so much on their shoulders?  People get stressed not because….they have problems but because they carry them forever.  People remain unhappy throughout their life, not because they haven't got any moment of happiness, but because they carry sadness on their shoulders.  People fail in their life not because they are not capable enough, but because they carry ' opinions of others on their shoulders about themselves.  There is so much to interpret the burden we carry on our shoulders that…. is not really worthy to be placed on our shoulders.  But still we carry because sometimes we feel that carrying them will prevent us from falling into the same pit again. Sometimes we carry to show ourselves or to give a face to our struggles.  But we couldn't get the lessons from our struggles or hardships we got in our lives, and we continue to carry the burden.   Remember… why you are h...
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Life isn't fair, but it's okay: Accept it and move forward

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Life is not smooth like butter, it is rather hard like a rock. Life is not like a cool shadow of a tree, it is rather hot like the sun. Life is not accessible like plains, it rather seems to be inaccessible like mountains. 

But, so what?

 Are you going to complain all your life…that life is unfair, life is hard… . Indeed it is? 

But, you are not supposed to sit on it and cry like a baby, who looks up to others to make him happy. 

You have to accept this unfairness and you have to do what you have to? 

Because life still has a meaning, it still can be beautiful, without being fair. That is the beauty of life. 

Rather than complaining about it, you have to accept its imperfection. You have to do your job, you have to accept this and move forward. Nothing is perfect in this world, then how can life be? 

Life is unfair….but it's okay… . 

You do a lot… but receive nothing

This happens with all of us. You do a lot for people, you do a lot for family, you do a lot to improve situations. But in the end you get nothing. 

You get no credit for doing so much. And you end up emptying yourself. This is life's unfairness. 

This is how life works. 

 You have to accept this but in the meantime you have to be fair to yourself, you can't give all to others, rather save some part of you for yourself, so that you have something in the end. 

So, cherish yourself for living for others, respect yourself for not being selfish. Cherish yourself that you are able to make someone's life simpler and easier. 

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You work hard… but still get unfavorable outcomes

We often think that if we work hard there is nothing that we can't conquer. There is no wall that we cannot take down by our consistency and perseverance. 

But the situation can be the other way round. You may get unfavorable results and that's completely fair in the court of life. 

In those times you have to stay strong, you have to carve out your path. If not here… then somewhere else.  

Remember your hard work already made you strong, your efforts can make you survive anywhere. And your power of struggle can get you anything beyond your expectations. 

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You value more… but not get valued 

Humans have a natural tendency to value something that they really cherished. Relationships are a true example of it. Where you cherish every moment you spend with your loved ones. You can go to any extent to make your family happy, to fulfill their dreams. 

But, the opposite can be possible, where despite doing anything for them, you get no value. It is quite possible that they saw you as a tool to fulfill their needs. Irrespective of your love and affection. 

This is what life's unfairness in relationships looks like. 

But you have to value yourself. You have to have a good relationship with yourself. Because, sometimes you have to be your biggest strength to turn life's odds into your favour. 

You care more… . but not get cared

You care not to break the heart of anyone. You care not to make fun of anyone. You care not to say harsh words to anyone. You care not to make anyone angry. You care not to look down upon anyone. 

But, when it comes to you. Everyone is ready to hurt you, ready to look down upon you, say harsh words to you, make fun of you. 

They don't care for you, rather they hurt you. They break your heart. 

But it's okay sometimes you understand your worth after being neglected, you find your worth after being rejected. 

Sometimes life's unfairness teaches you the best life lessons. 

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How to overcome life's unfairness

You often hear the phrase “ When life gives you lemons, squeeze them and make lemon water.”

This is how you are supposed to navigate life's unfairness. 

Never ever underestimate yourself.. 

You don't know who you are? 

You don't know what you can do? 

You don't know what you are capable of? 

Until adversities stuck us, we don't know ourselves. Sometimes adversities put you on the right path. Sometimes adversities bring out the best in you. 

So, when life becomes unfair… keep your guards ready to survive the ocean to get into a beautiful island. 

Never give up on your dreams

Irrespective of how hard it is to keep going. Irrespective of how difficult it is to go the extra mile. You never know what is coming next? 

Living your dreams is still going to be beautiful and worthy, over living a regular easy life. 

Don't try to keep everything under control

You can't control everything in life. You can only control your actions, you can't control results. Then why hold everything tight. 

 Let life happen. Let life make its way. Focus on enjoying the view of life. Don't try to make everything right. 

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Enjoy life's uncertainty

What is going to happen, will happen anyway. Why do you have to worry? Why to take stress about uncertainties in life? 

Rather be curious to see what life is offering you. Remember life has no rulebook to follow.

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Everyone has their journey to cover

You can't compare your life with every other person, whom you know and whom you are meeting.

You don't know their background story, you don't know their sacrifices. You don't know their struggles. 

So, accept your hardship as a makeup to your life. Which is going to make your life further beautiful.

My learnings in life

In the past I worried a lot about my future. I tried hard to control everything in my life. Though I worked hard for my dreams, things didn't turn out favorably. I hurt myself a lot by becoming my own worst critic.

I cursed life a lot. I complained a lot about life's unfairness. In the end I get nothing. 

But one thing I understand is that “ Life always gives you choices, it's on you how you receive them, how you turn them favorable.”

It's all upon you… how do you want to live your life? 

Whether you want to be stuck in life or whether you want to hold things tightly all your life. Your life is yours. 

 But, remember when life closes one door on your face. Surely, it will open another door for you in a different direction, all you have to do is.. Find that door and enter into life again. 

Thus, life is indeed unfair, but how you choose to live it is what is going to matter in the end. 




















 




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