I wish I cared less: The Art of letting life be

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   When I was in school, I feared public speaking to death because I was not well versed in English. Most of the time I didn't get a chance to speak because our class was so large. But when nothing else worked out, I had to speak. Things often got worse. I worried like hell. I could not focus on other things for the time being. Along with this, another matter of concern was “my image”. If I fumbled or couldn't speak well, how would I face my teachers and classmates? Now I wonder, what a stupid person I was? How under confident I was? I worried about the things that are just a cakewalk for most of you and for me now.  What if I had been a little more confident? How much stress could I have avoided in my childhood?  Now I understand that it was all in my imagination ... .Instead of worrying, I could have focused on improving my English speaking. Sometimes I wish I could go back in time and speak the way I do today? But, I know I can't. As the time and that platform a...

The Power of Positive Self Talk: Change Your Inner Voice, Transform Your Life

 


In our lives we are so busy that we rarely give attention to our everyday conversation with ourselves. These conversations are the one which shapes our perception towards life. 

We rarely observe our conversation's tune, whether it is positive or negative? Whether it is supporting us in our lives, our goal and our relationship? Or just diverging us towards a negative thinking loop. And creating a barrier subconsciously to our growth and progress. 

Our self-talk subconsciously draws the map of our lives. It sets our frequency to the actions that we want to perform. It sets our frequency to the emotions that we want to feel. In a way it sets our life's frequency to the way we want to live. 

But many of us remain indifferent to it for our lives and spend our whole life in the negative self-talk loop. And we were never able to come out of it. We even become our biggest critic. 

That's why… . . Take a pause, observe your conversation with yourself and make your inner voice work for you by practicing positive self talk. 

1.Negative self talk limits you, while positive self talk expand your horizons by healing you

Negative self-talk makes you doubt yourself in every situation of your life. It not only undermines your abilities but also severely damages your own belief system. You keep comparing yourself to others, becoming harsher to yourself. 

So, recognize your pattern of conversation you subconsciously have with yourself. Recognize how and when you repeatedly tell negative stories to yourself. 

This is the first step to harness the power of positive self talk in your life. 

By recognizing the pattern you can set your frequency to the positivity in your life. Replace negative inner voice with positive self talk. Bringing positivity by positive inner talk opens new gates for your healing. Healing not only expands your horizons in life but also makes you attract the things that you want to achieve in your life. 

This is how changing your inner voice sets your fielding for healing and transformation in your life. 

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2.Positive self talk boost your self worth in difficult times

In good times we often find our cheerleaders easily. There are plenty of people to take care of, to uplift us further.

But, when life hits us hard… when there is nobody to cheer for us, nobody to encourage us and nobody to acknowledge our worth. Then it is only and only our responsibility to feel good about ourselves. And then our only survival tool is our “positive self talk”. 

Our positive self-talk gives us courage to face difficult days and uncertainties in our lives. Our encouraging words keep us high in our lows. It helps in replacing our self doubt with self belief. It encourages us when nobody else does. 

Because, if we become harsh to ourselves, the situation is going to worsen. Nobody is going to save us from dooming. Thus, our inner voice not only builds our confidence but also makes ourselves a hero in our lives. 

3.Positive self talk transform life's possibilities into your realities

Our inner voice shapes our perception towards things in life. It is the lens through which we see the outside world. If we have negative perception towards things, we see difficulties and limitations in every possibility and in every opportunity.

While if we have positive perception about life, then we transform our mindset towards doing things irrespective of difficulties and limitations. Our positive words to ourselves act as a fuel to our possibilities and are able to transform it into reality. 

We reaffirm our belief from “I can't to let's give it a try.” “I am not good, so I will try my best.”

4.Positive self talk enhance your emotional resilience by keeping check on your emotions

Positive self talk teaches you to accept yourself the way you are. It reaches you to love yourself, irrespective of your imperfections. As it taught us to behave kindly and compassionately with yourself. It improves your relationship with yourself. 

This brings stability in your emotions. And this automatically enhances your emotional resilience, irrespective of the situation you are going through in your life. 

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5.Positive self talk put us on the path of action

Our negative emotions take us on the long drive of negative self talk. It tells us not to move forward and not to take actions in our lives. As we already believe that we are going to fail in whatever we do. 

While the positive self talk reverses our gears by positive affirmations or positive inner words. It lets us choose appreciation over unnecessary self criticism. It powers our actions through strong self belief. It channels all our energy into the action we perform. It forbids laziness and procrastination from our lives.

 As it motives ourselves from within… It ultimately sets our vibration so high that we are naturally drawn to the action we are supposed to perform. 

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6.Positive self talk makes you beautiful from inside out

When you have positive self-talk with yourself, you are less likely to be stressed about things in your life. Because… then your inner voice acts as a guide for you in your life situations. 

And you will be quite synchronize  with your thoughts, beliefs and actions. There is no contradiction in your thinking, belief and your actions. Your life will turn out beautiful irrespective of hardships in your life. Then you become beautiful not only from outside but also from inside. Because you know what your assumptions are? You know what conversation you are having with yourself, without trapping yourself in the loop of negative self talking. 

7.Positive self talk pave the way for your personal growth

Positive self-talk makes you aware of your thoughts. It brings stillness in your life. It frees you from the loop of overthinking by keeping in your present moment. It makes you reflect more than react to life events.

 Positive self talk not only enhances self worth but also contributes to your personal growth. It emphasizes upon mindfulness it makes you accept yourselves. It removes the fear of making mistakes. It makes you comfortable in your own skin. 

It creates a healthy relationship with yourselves.

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Thus, make your inner voice your biggest strength

Your inner voice or inner dialogue set the foundation of your mindset. What do you think? How do you treat yourself? Consciously and subconsciously form your realities. So, why to entangle yourselves into the loop of negative self talk and self criticism. As it is not going to change anything in your lives. 

So, it's time to shift your gears, by observing your inner dialogue and effectively replacing it with positive self talk. By learning to appreciate your effort. 

Make it a regular practice rather than a temporary habit. 

Your inner voice is the voice that stays with you through every success, failure, struggle and in a new beginning. Make sure it is the voice that gives you courage rather than taking it away. 


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