I wish I cared less: The Art of letting life be

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   When I was in school, I feared public speaking to death because I was not well versed in English. Most of the time I didn't get a chance to speak because our class was so large. But when nothing else worked out, I had to speak. Things often got worse. I worried like hell. I could not focus on other things for the time being. Along with this, another matter of concern was “my image”. If I fumbled or couldn't speak well, how would I face my teachers and classmates? Now I wonder, what a stupid person I was? How under confident I was? I worried about the things that are just a cakewalk for most of you and for me now.  What if I had been a little more confident? How much stress could I have avoided in my childhood?  Now I understand that it was all in my imagination ... .Instead of worrying, I could have focused on improving my English speaking. Sometimes I wish I could go back in time and speak the way I do today? But, I know I can't. As the time and that platform a...
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You Have to Fight to Yourself To Reach Where You Want to Be in Life

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“No one saves us but ourselves. No one can and no one may. We ourselves must walk on the path.”                                             Buddha

Hardcore success of others often gives us goosebumps. It excites us to walk on the same path. We do walk for the first few days… as we also want to achieve hard earned success like them, and make ourselves proud. 

After a few days of struggles… we couldn't keep up. But why? Are we not capable enough? Are we not worthy of success? This is the story of all of us who want to be successful, but couldn't maintain the pace of doing hard things. 

This happened because the source of motivation comes from outside. Which faded away in time being. And we rely more on motivation than inner and conscious will power. If the source of the motivation comes from within with conscious efforts then things go quite easy. Here, your mind builds that system for you. 

But it is not the case that… you can't fail your own built system. This is also bound to fail if you… keep procrastinating, if you keep being lazy or keep loving your comfort zone. You keep yourself trapped. Everything can be possible. 

But one thing that is quite common in all situations is “ You have to fight to yourself to win you back, to do hard things, to achieve hard core success.” 

You have to walk even your feet are sore 

Once in an interview Usain Bolt said that “ My success owes to the practice of running, which I did after being tired like hell.”

We all want to be successful in our lives, we do hard work. But a small storm of failure deter us to go forward. And we think this is all and this is the end of our journey. 

But the real journey of success began from here. When we have no energy to move even a single step.. still we climb mountains. When we are running out of our youthful years… still build an empire. When we have no one around us… . still create our own world. 

All this happened because we never stop believing in ourselves. We never stop after being tired. We never fear from the storms of failures. We keep pushing ourselves hard. Because nobody is going to do this for you. You yourself have to be your back. 

Moreover, we win over ourselves, to go forward. We bend our mind to move… even if the pathway is hard like rock? We fight from ourselves to move forward, to achieve the hardcore success. 

Its my life and I choose to grow

You have to dream again even when your dreams are crushed

We all dream, we see big dreams. We worked hard for it. Some of us are lucky to achieve them and for rest it becomes a nightmare for their lives. They don't dare to dream again. Not because they do not want to. It is just that they lose themselves to them. Their minds tell them to stop, they fear failure like hell. 

At those moments of life.. If they fight back to themselves for their dreams. If they shut their mind and stand up again. There is no way that they could fail. There is no force that could stop them from achieving their dreams. 

Because sometimes life tests us, it tests our patience, it tests our grit. In those times if you stay strong, if you fight for your dreams, if you win yourself.... 

The world is yours. That's why you have to dream again even if your past dreams are crushed mercilessly. 

Because only you can dream for yourself, nobody else is going to take care of your dreams.

Life isn't fair, but it's okay : Accept it and move forward 

You have to earn again even if you are going to bankrupt

Earning money is one of the best feelings we could ever have. As it not only empowers us to treat ourselves better but also gives us a sense of security. It also gives us a sense of freedom to go where we want to, to do things we want to experience and much more. 

But, one hit from bankruptcy ruined us. We no longer dare to earn again, to be rich again. We don't want to earn again, stand up again on our feet… not because we can't. But, due to fear of bankruptcy again. Due to fear of losing all over again. 

As this fear takes deep roots in our minds we feel paralyzed. But, this is the turning point… where we have to gather ourselves, where we have to conquer all our fears. And this could be possible only when we have ourselves. When we win our trust back from ourselves. 

So, earn again,be rich again..you got only one life. Instead of owning, focus on experiencing life.

You have to have hope again even if you left with nothing

Like the fuel in the vehicle, our hope in life gives us reason to wake up every morning. Hope gives us reason to survive the situations even if it is unbearable. Still… we survive the worst in the hope of the best. 

There is always a hope that everything will turn out to be good. Everything will be better in the upcoming days. 

But for that we have to have belief, have to have hope for good. Even if there is nothing to hope for? Even if there is minimal possibility for good. We have to back ourselves. 

We have to give ourselves a reason to hope for good. This happens when we fight to ourselves for good, when we win over ourselves. We hope what we want to, not what our mind tells us to hope or what our negative thoughts tell us? 

Remember magic happens, when we win over our negative mindset. When we hope, even if we are left with nothing. 

You have to live again even if you died from inside

I personally find it more relatable. As I got so many rejections on every front of life. Whether it could be career, health, friends or success whatever it is everywhere I find no entry or not allowed board. It killed me from inside. 

But, one thing that kept me going was my family, especially my parents. Then I comprehend … you always have something to live for. You always have something to be grateful for. 

Life is much more than rejections. There is so much to live for. It is just that you have to see those things with your positive mindset. Remember only one kick from life is enough to kill us but there are so many kicks to live for even if it is hard like hell. 

Let's go to grow: why letting go is essential in life for happier life

In the end… 

There is so much to explore in various aspects of life. But, if you understand what message I am trying to convey? I am sure you will understand the message and follow the same in your life.

But still I want to say that… 

“A drop of water in the outside world feels like a big deal, but the ocean within us seems to be unworthy to pay attention.”

So explore your inner self. Fight with your inner self to get what you want. Force yourself because nobody else is going to do it for you. Win yourself to reach where you want to be. 

Because if you are not in tandem with yourself you can't reach anywhere, you can't achieve anything in life. 



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